九月份,是學校開學的日子。記得,四年前的這個時候,抱著一股想要實現夢想熱忱的我,來到歐洲開始我的異鄉 MBA 學生生活。那時已經快要三十歲的自己,放下工作,重新開始一段窮苦的學生生活,真的是需要帶有一點點傻勁的勇氣,因為那是雙腳踏上一段對未來未知的旅程,這一路上,有可能賭上了時間、金錢,卻沒有相對等回收的投資。(這也是很多打算著留學 MBA 的人,永遠都會思考著的投資報酬率問題,但卻是沒有最後答案的問題。因為,如果沒有親自走這一遭的人,怎麼會知道當自己走在這樣一場人生路的答案呢!?)
寫著部落格日記,是從我在荷蘭那一段MBA學生生活時,養成的一種習慣。然後,一直寫到現在。最讓我感覺到這部落格帶給我的優點,就是,透過這個部落格,可以認識跟我一樣對這一場人生擁有熱忱的人,同時也是一樣帶著一點點傻勁的勇氣那種人,然後放下台灣的一些,來到異鄉認真實踐著自己胸懷中的夢想,展開著未知但卻充滿真實的生活!Fiona 就是這樣,因為奇妙的緣份有了共鳴,在我的部落格裡,遇上的。她,趁著在荷蘭 TiasNimbas MBA 學校九月中旬開學前的空檔,來到比利時,特地跟我見上一面,我們聊天說地,享受著歐洲悠閒氣氛的天光;看著滿懷熱情談論著展開異鄉 MBA 學生生活的她,這讓我回想起當初的自己,感覺好像自己又回到四年前那個年輕的自己呢!
這一場人生的際遇,誰能預料自己的未來會是如何呢?除非那個人是個讓自己生活一成不變的人,不然,真的很難預料自己的未來,會是如何。我可以說,自從開始我的異鄉求學生活之後,這四年下來,變化真的很大,當時的我,怎麼也無法預料到自己,會在比利時居住下來,然後有個愛我的先生與可愛的小寶貝組成了一個幸福家庭,也同時展開自己的專業職涯,籌組了一間屬於自己的顧問公司。
遇上了 Fiona,她總是說,我給了她很大的鼓舞,讓她更堅定了這一場異鄉求學的勇氣,然後更有力量的面對這一場未知的未來。我想,在人生的這一條路上,也許在某個時段,會有某個人的陪伴,走上一段路,或長或短,但最終其實都是孤單一個人的;沒有其他人可以替代自己面對迎面而來的生命之流,而出現在身邊可以陪伴的人,所能做的,就是給予正面與支持的鼓勵,讓自己堅強可以有正面的力量,去面對這一場生命之流。最後,走向生命的終點,沒有遺憾的。
上面這兩張照片,是 Fiona 來到 Mechelen 時,我們在市中心廣場前的一家 Cafe,請餐廳的服務生幫我們拍攝留下的身影。那一天,真的很開心 Fiona 的來訪,我們聊天聊到差一點忘了時間,那時候還擔心著 Fiona 會趕不上最後一班火車回荷蘭,讓 Fiona 趕著跑去火車站,還好最後有趕上那一班列車。 就讓我們保持聯絡,也許在不久的未來,我們還會再碰面呢!而且,搞不好,等 Fiona 在 MBA 畢業之後,有一天也可能會在歐洲開始工作然後穩定下來,繼續著這一場人生際遇的奇妙緣分呢!
-no.827-
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1) 四年前的我,在歐洲開始的異鄉生活與MBA留學日記。(http://jomei.wordpress.com/2004/09/)
- 9月 24 週三 200804:19
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Dear Ariel 谢谢你記錄著這段我們的奇妙巧合&相遇 真的很開心的遇見妳^^ 面對未知 ~~我正勇敢向前 ^^ Fiona
我也很開心能夠見你一面, 學妹~ 加油囉!!
Hi Ariel I was curiously visiting your blog via others, and sorry for not being able to type in Chinese (I don’t have the software and don’t know how either), but I am able to read and hand writing. However, what has brought me to here and leave a message to you is due to the fact that I am glad to know someone out there has an open mind and willing to share her experiences to the wonderers. Well, friends come from no where, but when it has happened friends is everywhere. Kind regards
Hi, Dazzing, Welcome. 不用介意寫英文, 我看得懂, 而且覺得你的英文很流利, 這也是我應該要跟你學習的地方呢!! 我也把你的網誌家入到我的最愛裡, 讓我三不五時就可以去你家走走~ 很高興在這裡遇見你, 歡喜遇見新朋友, 尤其是那種有著某些相同性格的新朋友~~ 歡迎你常來...
Hi Ariel Thanks for your compliment, I am indeed and loving to share the experiences with you. People say, there is always something out there to do as a first time, I am surely making friend isn’t the first time to anyone but on network, has been obviously “many” first time to you and to me. I am glad to know someone with open arms to be a listener as well as a narrator, and I have my faith to meet all kind of people, for instance I am looking for “matching friend” (don’t get me wrong please, I mean good friend who can shear their life experience with) could be a framework that looking for someone has similar view of life or live, in terms of being a close friend. I apologise for wittering but as you can see that I am truly happy to know you and hopefully to be a friend of yours. PS/ you will be able to view my photo if you wish on my facebook account.
Hello, Dazzing, I was smiling when I was reading your message, because I think that we have similar points of friendship. Yap! I have seen you on the facebook. Hey, you look so great that I can tell you are a happy girl too.
Hello! Ariel, This is Amy, Master student at TiasNimbas. Feona told me about you today in the library at school. :D I would like to visit you in October if it's available for you. my email: astutechen@yahoo.com my blog: http://www.wretch.cc/blog/astutechen But my blog is hidden. If you also have account at wretch, I can add you in my secret friend. Really happy to know you!:)